Headstone drama

It's a headstone. Exactly like the other headstone. Why is this so difficult?

We ordered Drew's headstone recently. It is exactly the same as John's. Exactly. Same size, same color. They are buried in the same vault on the same plot in the same cemetery. John's stone is raised instead of sunk into the ground.

The stone was supposed to be here last week, but the monument company called to say 7-10 MORE business days. Then this week, I go out to the cemetery and they dug the spot for Drew's stone.

Two problems with that: They dug the footer BEHIND John's stone instead of beside it.
AND THEY DUG IT, like to sink it down. Not like John's stone.

I am irrationally beyond upset about this. The stone is important. It is forever. It must be right. Now there is some bullshit about how they don't think they can put Drew's stone next to John's stone. I don't want it in the plot next to John's, I just want it physically next to John's stone!

I'm so frustrated. And sad. And mad. I should not have to deal with this because I should not have dead babies. I should not have to deal with this because this is not rocket science. Because I have been clear on my wishes about this. And because it is important.

Ugh!